Dear friends and fans. I have written an exciting easter newsletter with a naughty story about a film celebrity, metoo versus prudery and moving poems and videos. Read all about it in my Easter 2023 Newsletter over here. Love Xaviera

I gave a marvelous birthday this summer with gypsy music and Dance! The band "The primas Tocila" from Csavas, in Transylvania, Romania, brought everybody in the right gypsy mood during this hot summer afternoon. Just now I returned from a great three weeks stay at the Edinburgh Fringe Theatre Festival, with my man Philip.

Xaviera Hollander

Xaviera has a fast mind and patient ear to listen to peoples problems, specially since she wrote a world famous monthly sex advice column for Penthouse for the last 35 years. Xaviera herself, happily married since 7 years, has all the more reason to be "happy". With her energetic speeches and conferences (Dutch & English) full of humor and wisdom she knows how to share happiness and humor with her public in a naughty way but never vulgar. Sex without humor does not exist for her. Read more >>